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x_samantha_x

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i stumbled upon this section and i thought id have a read.... and what i have read is absolutely outrageous!

i have had an abortion and i dont care what you peope say to me about it.... how can you dare judge if you have never been in a situation like that and especially if you are a man... YOU ARENT THE ONE THAT GETS PREGNANT!!!

i was raped at 16 and became pregnant from it... would you say thats my fault as someone did in another post? a stupid 15 yr old making stupid choices? i DID NOT choose to have sex and my family pushed me into abortion...

and another quote was "they are taking the easy way out" i assure you it is not the easy way out... women who have abortions live with the guilt for the rest of their lives so stop being on their backs! alot of the time they feel like they have no choice! i certainly feel like this

every year on that day i do something special and on the edd anniversary i buy a gift... i named my unborn child aswell.... i dont care if you think this is weird or dont think i have a right to be upset and grieve my loss... yes it is a loss....

when you are pregnant your emotions are all over the place... if someone you trust is forcing you to have an abortion by saying only negative things can come out of it you start to believe this yourself...

anyone have any comments id love to hear them and i dont care what you say to me
 


Posts: 2 | Posted: 10:13 AM on September 3, 2008 | IP
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I'm sorry to hear that.

I know that it's not your fault. However, I'd also argue that it's not the baby's fault. Why should s/he suffer for what his/her father did?
 


Posts: 13 | Posted: 03:08 AM on March 12, 2009 | IP
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First off I want to say I am really sorry for what happened to you. A lot of my friends have gone through the same thing, most of which have gotten thier dues although that pain doesn't heal easily.

Aside from that, I have to say in response to akrolsmir, because the bastard was the one that put the child in there. It's obvious that she does suffer and that she had to go through a lot. It was her decision in the end and that's ALL that matters in the end.


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Posts: 17 | Posted: 11:22 PM on March 12, 2009 | IP
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Seems the baby is being punished by having murder forced upon him/her thru no fault of his/her. What do you say to this baby 15 years later as a teenager if you decided not to kill him/her? Would you say, "you know, I was supposed to have aborted you are you glad I didn't? You have traded a complete lifetime of living for this child for temporary solution to what happened to you, Is it worth it? Something to think about.
 


Posts: 151 | Posted: 11:21 AM on June 21, 2009 | IP
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@gluteus - she should not have guilt for what she has done. She's already been through the grueling experience of being raped and having an abortion. If there was any moment for reprieve this would be it. She made a choice based on the life that she has to live. You live a completely different life. And you must if you cannot, in the very least, sympathize with someone who's lived through some real pain. Think about that!
 


Posts: 2 | Posted: 02:38 AM on June 29, 2009 | IP
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If a fetus can not feel the abortion or if the Mother is in danger, I am okay with abortion.
 


Posts: 20 | Posted: 11:31 PM on January 17, 2013 | IP
    
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