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I am on a mission to educate those of you who are repulsed by homosexuality. Truth be known ..we all know it is a perversion. But why do they have same sex attraction?
Firstly, common sense will tell you that boys and girls fit together not boy and boy or girl and girl. So why do they desire their own sex? Did they choose this? No. So why did it "happen" to them? Because as young toddlers the young boy who was bonded with Mom, for whatever reason didnt break away from Mom to bond with Dad or a male figure. Therefore their identity became "feminine" . They had a big "Daddy hole" in their heart which confused them and made them feel "different" as young boys. They preferred their mothers company and NOT their Fathers. As puberty arose they found themselves wanting what they were missing inside ..ie their manhood. AS they never really identified with men, men became the "mysterious sex". Therefore the attraction and desire turned to lust and an effort to "become whole". This explains why the number of male gays is at least 10 times higher than lesbians. Manhood requires two sets of bonding. Females on the other hand also had bad relationships with same sex parents or may be products of molestation. (boys may have been molested also however the man hunger comes from never bonding to the same sex parent) Don't believe this? Find some gay men who have had good relationships with their Dads. Often they won't hate their Dad just say he was "distant" or never there.
 


Posts: 0 | Posted: 3:07 PM on November 25, 2003 | IP
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Uh-huuuh... a mission to educate, eh? May I ask what kind of studies you've conducted to come to these interesting conclusions? How does your hypothesis explain a gay man who was raised solely by his father? Or a gay woman who has never been molested? Do you have any scientific evidence, personal anecdotes, ANYTHING besides utter bullshit to back up your outdated beliefs?

I, for one, am the daughter of two entirely normal, upper-middle-class, intelligent, loving, married-20-years-and-counting parents. I've never been molested. I don't hate or harbour any sort of deep, unhealthy resentments toward men. The score: Real Evidence One, Prehistoric Conjecture ZEROOOO!!!


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Posts: 6 | Posted: 10:14 PM on November 26, 2003 | IP
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Who ever said Boys and Girls fit together? Obviously, you are not a gay man or lesbian woman because you would know how well two people of the same sex fit together, especially when they are in love.  I was raised by both my mother and father and I am very close to both of them.  But, if you are trying to blame parental delinquency, look somewhere else.  So you best pump your brakes kid!!
 


Posts: 5 | Posted: 8:49 PM on November 28, 2003 | IP
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I've got something funny to tell you, did you know that hetro men are turned on by females and homo men are turned on by males but female (hetreo, bi or homo) are turned on by both females and males. so if your worried ladies that a lesbian is cheaking you out, dont be it's probably your best mate sitting next to you who has a boyfriend....


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Posts: 3 | Posted: 11:45 PM on March 4, 2004 | IP
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Well...I was never molested...and I grew up with a great father and a great mother...so explain to me why I am not heterosexual, I wish to know....


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Posts: 3 | Posted: 5:00 PM on March 8, 2004 | IP
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I was raised single handedly by my mom.  I am straight too.  What about that foo?
 


Posts: 61 | Posted: 11:17 PM on March 9, 2004 | IP
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Quote from Guest at 3:07 PM on November 25, 2003 :
I am on a mission to educate those of you who are repulsed by homosexuality. Truth be known ..we all know it is a perversion. But why do they have same sex attraction?
Firstly, common sense will tell you that boys and girls fit together not boy and boy or girl and girl. So why do they desire their own sex? Did they choose this? No. So why did it "happen" to them? Because as young toddlers the young boy who was bonded with Mom, for whatever reason didnt break away from Mom to bond with Dad or a male figure. Therefore their identity became "feminine" . They had a big "Daddy hole" in their heart which confused them and made them feel "different" as young boys. They preferred their mothers company and NOT their Fathers. As puberty arose they found themselves wanting what they were missing inside ..ie their manhood. AS they never really identified with men, men became the "mysterious sex". Therefore the attraction and desire turned to lust and an effort to "become whole". This explains why the number of male gays is at least 10 times higher than lesbians. Manhood requires two sets of bonding. Females on the other hand also had bad relationships with same sex parents or may be products of molestation. (boys may have been molested also however the man hunger comes from never bonding to the same sex parent) Don't believe this? Find some gay men who have had good relationships with their Dads. Often they won't hate their Dad just say he was "distant" or never there.



You seemed to have listed a bit a statistical data here, do you have anyway of provinf you didn't make this rubbish up?

Everything you have stated here is been debuncted a million times over, but show me where you got these numbers.   And don't bother if it is NARTH,  I can easily tear NARTH down.


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Posts: 29 | Posted: 12:44 AM on September 29, 2004 | IP
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i think ur just in the closet...granted that i had all of those "statistic" but i am by nature and choice (depending on what u believe) bi...i love my g/f and i wont ever let her go....if u think for one minute u NEVER had a homosexual fantasy about another guy or girl then ur just in denial or u have yet to experiance urs....everyone goes through it and some just prefer the same sex and others r too ashamed or brain washed to a) admit it or b) ... certain animals have same sex coupling and u dont see them worried about it....u just need to be re-educated...if u really love someone u dont care what race or sex they are....no matter what u've been through....many people say there are soul mates so y cant a soul mate be of the same sex?? answer that one
 


Posts: 2 | Posted: 1:11 PM on October 19, 2004 | IP
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Let me guess: you took a psychology class and swallowed Sigmund Freud's discredited theories hook, line, and sinker. The claims you're repeating as gospel were just some fuzzy theories that Freud came up with which have been repeated in their original form despite the fact that most phychologists have found them to be inaccurate. See the Wikipedia article for more detailed information.
 


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