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I'd like this topic to be that of spanking, for parents and kids! I'm 13 yrs old.
 


Posts: 1 | Posted: 6:43 PM on October 23, 2004 | IP
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I think that as long as the motive of the parent is to teach and discipline the child, rather than just out of anger, then spanking is fine.
 


Posts: 60 | Posted: 09:30 AM on January 10, 2005 | IP
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I agree, I know I turned out pretty good and you bet, I got spanked when I was younger!


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Posts: 27 | Posted: 9:25 PM on February 15, 2005 | IP
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i agree as well, but unfortunately its difficult for the courts/people to decide when a child is in a dangerous/abusive situation. Spanking works when its done properly. some people have this utopian ideal that somehow people should be able to go through life without any hardships, or struggles, or pain.. this is absolutely absurd. All growth comes from struggle, everything beneficial is fought for, and you can't raise a kid without punishment.
that said, there are other effective means of punishment, however no kid likes to get an ass-whoopin', while some like time-outs so spanking is a safe bet



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Posts: 95 | Posted: 6:53 PM on May 4, 2005 | IP
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Why spank the kids? It's not their fault that they all have A.D.D... lol...jk
 


Posts: 5 | Posted: 03:06 AM on January 3, 2006 | IP
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Our society was not made for any one under the age of 21. Teens (like my self) need more sleep than they can get, and little kids need more reces. So most people under 21 could be classified as ADD.


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Posts: 681 | Posted: 11:23 PM on May 4, 2007 | IP
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I'm lost.  How can you not get more sleep?  What time are you going to bed?  How much time did you spend watching TV?  ADD is, most of the time, a joke.  If a kid can sit in front of a computer or television show for half an hour or more then there is no deficit in his attention span.  Lack of discipline, perhaps.  ADD, no.


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Posts: 1287 | Posted: 09:03 AM on May 6, 2007 | IP
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 WEll if yoru partner/spouse is ok with it and the mood is right then heck yeh!

 Oh you mean kids? Oops sorry...


 To be serious. Kids tend to get away with far to much because parents can't seem to disapline them. Part of it is due to initial parenting, and the enviroment.

 Now to clear it up I am a gay man. I would not hit my child. I believe in instilling respect early on without the need to strike them. Other early disipline, but with a loving touch, can work.

 Be involved with yoru kids from the start and be a friend. Take interest in their interests. Yes it can be hard. It also works.

 When I am out and I see a child that is tired, not feeling well, cries out, then the mother hits them, now the child is screaming 10 times louder. I must ask, what did that just achieve? A squelling child in pain. It more the fact mommy hit me with anger that makes me cry...

 I found thsi interesting (I'm a vet tech). MY one nephew got out of control as a teen. Now in don't trainign and restraining an animal, the natural scuffing of the neck works well to make to relax. Well guess what.

 I took my hand, and with little pressure, grabbed my nephew (mind you he's not much smaller then me at this time) by the neck liek scuffing a cat. To his knees he went. He couldn't move. I told him to never treat his mother that way again, he said OK sorry. Went to kiss his mother and feared tryign it again.  NO brusing or damage (other then the ego).

 P.S. LADIES! It works on yoru men well also!



 


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Posts: 16 | Posted: 9:53 PM on January 16, 2008 | IP
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There's a difference between child discipline and child abuse.  Alot of the positive-reinforcement people (I just call them what they are: cowards) say that you could traumatize a child by spanking them.  Gee, I didn't know that half of the people I grew up with had emotional scars.  In fact, what's more likely to traumatize a child is if you pamper them, then they grow up, move out into the real world, and realize that they can't get everything their way.  I have seen tons of parents who try to use "positive reinforcement", usually the parents whose children refer to them by their names, and call them f***ing b****es.  Most kids with such parents that I've met were arrogant snobs who thought that they had the right to use the f-bomb against their own parents.  But most of the kids I knew who were disciplined with corporal punishment were not traumatized, but actually treated people with respect.  They were not snobs, and the ones that have grown up by now ended up being more successful in life.  Spanking doesn't traumatize, and it's more effective than that weakling liberal positive reinforcement junk.


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Posts: 68 | Posted: 9:52 PM on March 28, 2008 | IP
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Quote from EMyers at 09:03 AM on May 6, 2007 :
I'm lost.  How can you not get more sleep?  What time are you going to bed?  How much time did you spend watching TV?  ADD is, most of the time, a joke.  If a kid can sit in front of a computer or television show for half an hour or more then there is no deficit in his attention span.  Lack of discipline, perhaps.  ADD, no.



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Posts: 681 | Posted: 01:37 AM on March 30, 2008 | IP
    
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